Real love is obvious and mutually understood. Ladies, if you or your ‘man’ has to say “what we have is real love,” then you are just trying to convince yourself.
Real love is long lasting and stands strong through all situations. If your ‘love’ is represented by short bursts of emotion and powerful urges, then it is not love it is lust.
Real love is felt and understood. It remains and doesn’t wear off. It needs no convincing or reminder; it is felt and understood.
Ladies (and men) make sure you are not just convincing yourself what you have is real love.
To be sure, pray and ask God. He is the Author and Designer of Real Love. He will show you if what you have is real. It will look like Jesus, not like man. It will not be selfish but self sacrificing. Check out 1 Corinthians 13 for a “love check.”