I just read this article from a guy who has experienced this first hand. I appreciate his openness and honesty. This article is a very good read especially for those in an affair and still think the other person will bring them happiness.
Affairs, like any sin, are very often fun and exciting. Their very nature keeps you in suspense for another chance to meet. Yet, also like sin, the drive and thirst is not quenched. Peace is hard to come by and during a divorce, will be nonexistent.
Take a moment to read the article and see what you think.