Marriage Tips

These marriage tips come from my own experience, from conversations with others and from personal study in God’s Word and books on marriage. They are separated in sections. The lower numbers are for dating (under 100), starting marriage (100-199), building marriage (200-299), warnings and caution in marriage (400-499), rebuking troubles in marriage (500-599), rebuilding a […]

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January 11, 2013

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Only God can read minds

In attempting to understand each other unfortunately we sometimes have an ideal view of relationships. In our marriage, sometimes we feel the other person should “just know” what is wrong or “figure it out.” The problem here is an idealistic view of a relationship. The one spouse is saying, in essence, “If you really loved […]

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January 4, 2013

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Real love

Real love is obvious and mutually understood. Ladies, if you or your ‘man’ has to say “what we have is real love,” then you are just trying to convince yourself. Real love is long lasting and stands strong through all situations. If your ‘love’ is represented by short bursts of emotion and powerful urges, then […]

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January 1, 2013

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Our lives together

(Written to my wife on our anniversary in 2011) Standing on that fire hydrant, as nervous as I was; I saw you for the first time and my heart has never stopped longing for you. Tatana on that very first day I met you, my life truly began. I saw purpose and motivation. I continue […]

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January 1, 2013

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Could it be?

This is a poem that I wrote either right after I met Tatana or right before I met her.  I had spent years searching for “love” and was let down so often.  This was an expression out of a desire to be done with my search for love and Mrs. Right.  I was so blessed […]

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January 1, 2013

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